These are not just words for they control emotions all through the human lifetime, which go from admiring - sometimes to the good and sometimes to slavish fanatical behaviour. If you liken to a rose, beautiful to a point that you want to hold it in your heart, but the life span of a flower as it is with some mortals is very fleeting, but if you hold that perfection in your memory then it is as wax and stays for eternity.
But if you push all this purity and beauty away from you, just look at the flaws. They will swamp your heart and bring darkness to all of your waking and sleeping hours. The design when you were created was only to keep your inner soul free from all the flaws of this mortal world, but once you have a free mind and want to experience all things - the good and bad and the ugly, then you learn to cleanse your body and mind, and try to teach others to follow suit - not for anyone else but for themselves.
You already know all the rules of life and how to treat your fellow humans, and only you know the truth of the excuses you make. The word ‘if’ for you is your biggest alibi in all things and comes to mind many times, for the path you know you should follow.
Everything in your mortal life is a blueprint that you designed, and you must wait your turn before you get the next one.
Try to be like the rose and create a happy memory in as many hearts as possible - all the thorns and flaws are then forgotten.
Make love and harmony your ideal lifestyle and have belief in the goodness of all.