Fear is one of the most negative forces and you live with it from the time you are born, walking like a shadow beside you, and the one that ties you down the most is disapproval of loved ones. You do as you are told because you are afraid of losing their love, but this is mental power and you can stifle all the goodness that is in you this way. You try to fit in by hiding your inner self and this gives other people power over you.
All through the growing years you are taught the rules, not only to distinguish wrong from right, but the way to behave for other people’s comfort. This is to make you be accepted into other people’s way.
But then your human brain starts thinking what is right for you. You can settle in one rut and be content to let others make decisions for you, but what about all these wonderful gifts that you have been given? Are you so afraid of upsetting people that you hide away your real self? When I talk to you and you write the words down, why can’t you speak of them? And if you are reading these words, are you afraid you will lose friends or that people will laugh at you? You have more friends than you can count in this world and the only person you have to please is yourself, and you know in your heart that all this is true.
Because people judge by appearances you think you wander through life unnoticed, but have no fear, we are always with you and our love does not waver. The only think we ask is that you love one another, and if your heart is full of love then you can do no wrong, nor think any wrong of others. The only one you have a right to judge is yourself, and if you know you have done, or thought, wrong and you cannot put it right, then forgive yourself and get on with your life, but always remember to profit by your mistakes. Never brood on them - enjoy the now, if it be in pain or sorrow pull your strength from the deepness of sorrow or joy.
Remember this Earth time moves very fast and any pain you feel has already past, but joy and happiness leave an eternal memory.